Rather lame NSFW/Fetish. If my full self-actualization, including eros, sexuality and fetishes, offends you, bye. No such thing as too tight, especially denim.
There is nothing you can do to render yourself respectable to fascists. Theyโll accept your help today, and tomorrow theyโll contract their definition of โrespectableโ to exclude you. I am not the reason theyโre persecuting you. They fucking hate you, regardless of how I dress.
People automatically assume external validation is bad. It's only bad if one doesn't have healthy internal validation against which to assess.
How does one develop healthy internal validation? From healthy external validation!
Some of us lacked that growing up.