yeah. i agree. manipulating someone you have no interest in just to get sex and playing with their emotions is bad. yes.
its not bad however to be attracted to someone and then try to get closer to them.
Wholly unsurprising that you choose to respond with an anime meme. I hope you realize that no surgery will turn you into the anime character with whom you are obsessed, but therapy will help you accept your autogynephilia for what it is.